I’ve just finished playing with the Rancho Cordova River City Concert Band at an event dedicated to supporting veterans. We passed the hat to raise money to go to Semper Fi. We played with the River City Choir. There weren’t many people in the audience, but the performance went very well!
Now I’m home, trying to figure out what to do. I’ve written before how critical it is that I manage my time well, because I just don’t seem to have enough of it to go around. This afternoon is one of those rare times when I don’t have anything specifically planned. I can choose to do what I want. So what do I choose?
It’s times like this that I face a kind of strange paralysis. I can choose to do just about anything, but I often wind up choosing to do pretty much nothing. It’s all because there is so much that my mind tells me that I should do.
Here’s a list of things I feel like I should do, in no particular order:
- Edit The Repossessed Ghost
- Work on some new story
- Work on programming projects for work
- Work on a programming project for fun
- Clean the garage
- Go for a long walk, even if it is raining
- Work on the laundry
- Finish watching Season 2 of Daredevil
- Play a game
- Please, just do something other than sitting around, watching YouTube
So many times, I wind up sitting in front of my computer, doing the thing I least want to do. It feels like I’m letting myself down, and wasting what little time I have.
I know why this happens. I’m legitimately tired, and I need to do something mindless for awhile.
Every week I maintain a packed schedule full of long hours. Many of those hours are spent dealing with and interacting with people. I’m not antisocial, but that type of interaction wears on me. I need a break sometimes. I need to do something mindless for awhile, so that I can recharge.
I drive myself hard all week. When I reach a break in my schedule, the urge to keep pushing is strong, but not as strong as the need to just sit and catch my breath.
Well, those are the excuses, anyway. I’m not the only one that goes through this. I’m human, just like everyone else. Today, I’m settling the paralysis by writing about it. Examining it. Sharing it.
Maybe I’ll find something else to do that isn’t on the list.