Tag: writing

07/18/13

Small Victories

Last night, I met up with my friend Michael.  We brought our laptops, and the goal was for each of us to get some writing done.  Michael’s struggle with writing lately has been external, in the form of his less-than-a-year old daughter.  My struggles have been purely internal, and I’ve already talked about them at length.

I was able to add at least a thousand words to my book last night.  It wasn’t exactly easy, but it was easier than it has been.  Like having a work out buddy, it really helped to have a writing buddy.  Hopefully, Michael and I will be able to keep to some sort of schedule like that.  I think it helped him, too.  He’s closing in on the end of his next book, and we were both excited about what we’d accomplished last night.

In other news, I’ve reached out to Rebecca Partridge to try and join her speculative writing group.  I got to meet her after one of her panels at Westercon, and I’m excited to see how joining a group like hers might help me improve my craft.  I’m sure that my work has flaws, and a writing group might be just the way for me to get the kind of feedback I’ll need to correct those flaws.  I’m also aware that writing groups aren’t always perfect, and some of the feedback might not necessarily be exactly what I need.  I’m optimistic about this, though.

So, in summary, I’m writing more, I’ve got something of a writing schedule starting to form, and I’m trying to join a writer’s group.  It’s starting to look more and more like I’m taking this hobby seriously.

Oh!  And one more thing.  My oldest friend Tim, who will forever be brother in spirit if not in blood, is an artist.  He’s been an artist as long as I’ve known him, and he’s amazing.  I’ve reached out to him, too, to see if he’s interested in doing a book cover for me.  It’s still way, way early for me to get a book cover, since I don’t actually have the book finished yet… but it still pleases me to no end to think of doing this with my best friend.  It’s the pursuit of a dream for both of us.  How awesome would it be if we achieved our dreams together?

07/15/13

Day9, Starcraft, and Writing

There’s an interesting coupling between the real-time strategy game Starcraft 2 and writing, for me.  Before I can get too deep into that, I need to make mention of a fellow called Day[9].

Day[9]’s real name is Sean Plott.  A coworker of mine when I was at my previous job introduced me to Day[9]’s Daily, which is a show where Sean talks about Starcraft.  Day[9] has been a professional gamer and commentator for over a decade, and the vast bulk of his experience and fortune all stems from Starcraft.

I didn’t immediately take to watching Day[9]’s shows regularly for a long while.  My introduction to Day[9] came before my trip to Reno’s WorldCon, so I wasn’t really in the proper place to add his particular brand of wisdom to my life.  Eventually, when I was in a better job and a happier place, I started going through his archives, mostly focused on his extremely humorous Funday Mondays.

The thing about Day[9]’s shows, though, is that they’re infectious.  Actually, it’s not his shows that are infectious… it’s the man himself.  He is highly energetic, highly enthusiastic, and extremely passionate about what he’s doing.  These are qualities that we can all appreciate, and that we should all try to apply in our lives.

His shows are about Starcraft, and though my initial interest in the game had waned, I found myself wanting to play the game again.  I started playing with a renewed interest and perspective on the game.  I wanted to participate in the competitive, laddering portion of the game.  I also wanted to stream my experiences, and participate in the Starcraft 2 community.

One particular show Day[9] did is extremely popular, and exceptionally inspirational.  It’s nearly 2 hours long, and in it, Sean talks about his life growing up and becoming a successful professional gamer.  Whether you know anything about Starcraft or not, there is something for everyone in that particular show.

Looking at Sean Plott’s journey inspired me.  This is a man that had the courage to pursue his dreams, and the dedication to making sure that the pursuit was successful.  This is a man that embraced the concept and now teaches that every loss is an opportunity to learn and improve.  This is a man that remained energetic and enthusiastic after finding his success, and continues to be a positive role model for all ages.

I have no aspirations to becoming a professional gamer myself, or even a commentator.  I enjoy the game, but my goal has always been to become a published author.  We can all take lessons from Sean’s life in regards to pursuing our dreams.  Those of us that play on the Starcraft ladder can take a few lessons from the game itself.

Overcome Ladder Anxiety
A lot of people experience fear before hitting the Find Match button.  Will I make some terrible mistakes?  Will my opponent be rude?  What will I do if I lose?  These are questions that can ultimately chase people away from playing the game altogether.  It’s natural to feel the apprehension.  It’s also important to overcome it, and just jump into the game.

With my writing, I definitely feel my own version of Ladder Anxiety.  I wonder if what I write will be any good or not.  I wonder whether or not anyone will be interested in what I write.  Once I finish my story, I wonder whether or not I’ll be able to get it published or not.  I’ve already posted about my struggles just getting the first draft out.  Something I can take from Starcraft is that I just need to get in the game, do the work, and see how it comes out.  Ultimately, it should be fun.  If it isn’t, then maybe it’s not the game (or dream) that I should be pursuing after all.

Haters are Gonna Hate
In any game of Starcraft, you can run into any number of truly toxic individuals.  Even out of the game, watching streams, you can run into people that will berate you, or give you bad advice, or mistreat you in some way with words.  Welcome to the internet, folks.

The lesson to be learned is to not take everything that is said to heart.  Some people may try to help you, and you should be courteous to those people, and try to use what treasures they give you.  Other people may try to tear you down or drag you down to their level.  You should be courteous to those people as well, find the lessons that can be learned (that may have nothing to do with what they’re actually saying), and be assertive in protecting yourself and your work.

There will always be people that take issue with you, for whatever reason.  Even people like Day[9] draw detractors.  Let them froth, and don’t take it personally.

Learn From your Losses
You’re not going to win every game you enter.  In Starcraft, in fact, the system is set up so that you’re really supposed to only win about half of your games.  If you get hung up on the losses themselves, and let the negative emotions that come from those losses overwhelm you, you’re not going to have the mental faculties to win the next game.

As in Starcraft, everything I do with my writing won’t meet absolute success.  Not all of the seeds I plant will be within fertile ground.  I’m going to get rejection letters.  All of the best authors have stacks of rejection letters in their history.  It is important for me not to let the prospect of those letters get me down.  It is also important that I learn from each unsuccessful experience, so that I might elevate my chances with the next endeavor.

It’s a Mental Game
Starcraft is all about multitasking, allocating resources appropriately, and reading your opponent so that you know what’s coming and where you’re going.  While the pros may have hundreds of actions per minute, the dexterity of their fingers isn’t the greatest part of their game.  Their greatest strength is their mental fortitude, to be able to withstand the pressure of sitting up on stage, with thousands of fans watching and significant money and reputation on the line.

Writing is also a mental game.  While there may be something to be said for emotions coloring the artistic palette, I think the stronger argument is for having the mental stamina to see that the work is done.  It’s important to feel the emotions without letting them distract you from doing what needs doing.  It’s especially important not to let fear be a crippling force, once the story is done, and it’s time to go on to the next level.

07/12/13

The Evil Editor…

So far, my posts have been targeted at establishing this blog, and giving a little bit of history.  It’s good to lay a foundation before building a castle of deftly worded opinions on top.  I’m sure there’s more memories or anecdotes for me to share.  However, I want to get to the meat of it.  I want to talk about writing itself, and why I’m struggling.

Bear in mind that I don’t want to simply whine.  I’m going to whine some, but only because I need to get it off my chest.  I also don’t want to validate my stagnation with impenetrable excuses.  The truth is that I’ve been wasting my time, because I’m afraid.  Yes, I have a full time job, and a wife, and children, and healthy hobbies.  I can’t honestly say that I haven’t wasted a lot of time, playing stupid games, or simply watching YouTube.

I’ve been avoiding my stories, because I’m afraid.

I have some friends that have shared with me their writing, and some of it, I’ve had to pinch my nose to wade through it*.  I’ve told those friends the truth, complimenting the places that I could compliment, and gently urging changes in the places that desperately needed to be changed.  I try hard not to be an asshole, even when I’m being honest.

I know that I can do better.  Hell, I’ve read a bunch of L. Ron Hubbard, and I know I can do better than him.  Not that I have any intentions of starting religion or doing a bunch of cocaine… I just think that if he be a successful writer with things like Mission: Earth, I can do better.

I’ve had strange experiences reading my own work.  I read the book I wrote when I was in high school, and while a dime-story detective novel set on the moon is interesting, my actual execution was so horrible and non-publishable that it’s embarrassing.  On the other side of that, I’ve stumbled across other short stories and found them to be amazing, discovering only after I’d finished them that I was the author.

English teachers have told me independently that I have a strong writing voice, and I believe them.  After my return to college in 2006, I discovered that I can parrot other writer’s voices.  I wrote a few essays, using Emerson’s density.  I wrote some fan fiction, adopting the mannerisms and inflection of Robert Jordan.

With all of this bragging, why should I be afraid to write?

I build up my expectations too high.  I don’t give myself permission to write a shitty first draft.  I go a little ways into my story, and I start gritting my teeth, wondering how I could write so terribly.  I reread what I’ve been working on, and the Evil Editor inside can’t sit still.

I’m afraid I won’t meet my own stupidly high expectations, and instead of trying and failing, I simply fail to try.

It’s bullshit, and I’m not going to do that anymore.

It may be that I’m delusional about my ability to write.  It may be that the best I can do will make the worst of L. Ron Hubbard seem like Shakespeare.  As long as I waste my time, no one will ever know.

* Oh… and if you’re one of my friends that has offered me their writing?  Please understand that I have more writer friends than you may know of.  I’m probably not talking about you when I say I had to “pinch my nose.”

07/8/13

In the beginning…

I think the first thing to establish is why I’m doing this.

For over 25 years, I’ve dabbled in writing.  I loved writing throughout school.  I loved writing out of school. For nearly a decade, my favorite pastime was playing in a game with some friends, where the whole point is to take turns, writing paragraphs to create interactive scenes.  In 2006, I went back to college to focus on writing.  It’s always been an important part of my life, and my talent and voice is something I take pride in.

Now that Westercon 66 has come and gone, I’ve decided to step it up a notch.  I’m going to write a little every day.  If I’m not working on my story, then I’ll write something here.  Some day, I want interested editors or publishers or readers to be able to look me up at this site, and be able to learn a little bit more about me and my writing.

This is a start.  This is the first stroke of the pen across the page.  Hopefully, the ink will continue to flow, and the imagination will continue to fire, and all the things that have been lodged in my heart and my mind will be freed for the world to see.

A blog seems like a good start.